When it comes to sex toys (or sex education in general) you don't find much information. Are you wondering why? The reasons are varied, but they have one thing in common: the shame of speaking openly on the subject.

However, in recent years, the sex toy industry is developing and their popularity is growing due to innovation and diversity: the inclusion of the LGBTQI+ community and the growing interest of women to experiment encourages this. And if you didn't know, the sex toy market grew by over 26% in 2019-2020 at the start of the pandemic.

In today's article we talk about them, about how to find the best options for you (and your partner).

How do I choose the right sex toy (for me or my partner)?

Sex tech or sexual technology has evolved a lot in the last 10 years. We finally got rid of the clunky plastic vibrators, and today, modern, quality sex toys are designed by medical and sex education professionals.

In short, sex toy stores - online or physical - have evolved in such a way that today there is something for everyone, regardless of your gender identity, sexual orientation or body abilities. And when it comes to choosing the right sex toy for women, men, non-binary or trans people, whether you want to try it alone or as a couple, the first step is to think about the type of stimulation you're looking for and who is the toy for

So the homework before shopping is this: what kind of stimulation do you want? Because there are gadgets that stimulate different parts of the body and they can be, for example, sex toys for the clitoris or just vaginal. They are generally external or internal, but the choice is a personal decision, so discuss it with your partner instead of grabbing the first thing you see on a site or in an erotic shop. If you are looking for a sex toy for couples, choose one together, and the good thing is that there are countless sex toys for beginners.

Once you know what you want, don't skip the reviews: they always help, if you're patient, because sex toys are extremely varied!

Where can we buy sex toys?

Today you can find the best sex toys with a google search and have them discreetly delivered to easybox if you don't want them delivered to your home. But there's no shame in taking a walk to the sex shop! It depends on your preferences. If you want more information about the gadgets you are interested in, look for a top of the best sex toys or sets online, where you can also order them, or talk to the seller of an erotic shop - the first step can be awkward, but once you are in the conversation you will see how simple and comfortable it is to discuss sex toys.

How can you order sex toys as discreetly as possible?

In recent years, more methods have appeared to deliver erotic products, and most stores will send you a discreet package, which will not contain the name of the company or other explicit words. Additionally, some people prefer delivery to a collection point such as easybox rather than their home address, which is an option if you don't want them sent to your home.

Guide to sex toys depending on who they are dedicated to

Once you have decided how you want to purchase them, you should know that the best sex toys can be used both alone and in a partnership. For example, if you add a toy that stimulates the clitoris during sex, the sensations are amplified. Some make you feel more comfortable and some come with surprises and get you out of a boring routine (if you think of BDSM sex toys).

Regardless of who they are dedicated to, sex toys have one purpose: to make you feel better about yourself and/or your partner. Don't think of them as a competition or a substitute, there is no competition.

The best sex toys for him. What sex toys do men choose?

If you find yourself in a man's body, the newest products on the sex toy market are as innovative as they are powerful. Created to amplify the sensations, intended for the penis or the prostate area, you can choose between gadgets in the shape of an egg , vibrating rings, anal sex toys, prostate stimulators, hyper-realistic fleshlights shaped like a vagina (or masturbators), and many others.

The best sex toys for her. What sex toys do women choose?

Erotic toys for women are not inferior either: from vibrators that mimic oral sex (such as Lelo Ora ), vibrators of different sizes, materials or shapes - both realistic and abstract - to dildos, balls or devices massage, female stimulators have evolved in recent years and you can find them as discreet as they are obvious, and some are starting to be marketed and not intended for a specific gender or age group.

The best sex toys for couples. How do we get rid of monotony?

With a simple google search you will find a lot of options that help you bring more fun to your married life, regardless of the partnership you have. For example, if you are a woman and your partner is also a woman or a trans/non-binary person in a woman's body, you can opt for various external stimulators, vibrators, double-ended dildos, strap-ons, or anal sex toys.

And because there are so many options, and we have a little guide for you!

1. The first step you should take when you want to bring sex toys as a couple is to talk with your partner about each other's preferences and fantasies, to ensure that you will have the best experiences.

2. Check the material from which the products are made: there are many cheap sex toys, and this can have a negative impact on health. It's good to keep a few basic things in mind about the component material, so make sure it's:

• phthalate free

• without perfume

• tasteless

• easy to clean

• SUSTAINABLE
  
  3. Choose a wireless sex toy that is easy for both partners to use and that pleases both sexes.

Sex toys guide according to the area to be stimulated

Depending on the area you want to stimulate, there are several types of sex toys. What are the most popular?

For the vulva, vagina and clitoris, you can use dildos, external bullet or finger vibrators, or those that use air pressure , internal - to stimulate the G-spot, with two ends, or bunny vibrators.

Then, anal sex toys are also very varied, specially created for safety reasons (if you didn't know, your anus has two sphincters, an external one that you can control, an internal one that your body has no control over). They can have vibrator functions or not, they can be in the form of an anal plug (plug), a dildo or some beads.

And for penis stimulation, you can find rings, vibrators, or devices that mimic oral sex.

Guide to sex toys according to type

Of course, you can also choose your erotic toy according to its type.

Sex toys with balls

If you choose anal balls, you need to take into account the material they are made of and whether you prefer vibrations or not. Gradual ball sizes allow you, especially if you are a beginner, to progress from a small size to a larger one. Some come with intense vibrations, if you're a fan.

Vaginal balls or Kegel balls are easy to use and are designed according to the anatomy of the vagina. They can be recharged in no time and the attached wire makes removal easy.

Sex toys ring

Moving on to ring toys, the role of penis rings is to make erections last longer. There are single rings, vibrating rings, double rings or adjustable rings that can be placed at the base of the penis.

SHAKER

Vibrators can be of many kinds, and are among the best-selling sex toys. In erotic shops you can find realistic vibrators or in different forms, these being the most popular toys in the world.

When choosing a vibrator, you need to take into account:

• its size

• the functions

• the material used to make it, because many of them can cause irritation or allergies if it contains phthalates (a group of chemicals used in plastics (PVC) to increase their flexibility, transparency and durability - being toxic substances). Look for "medical grade silicone" on the label.

A user manual will tell you exactly what the functions are and how to set up a vibrator, and the different models will help you explore your erogenous zones: some vibrators have back-and-forth movements, others can be used hands-free or wirelessly, and the intensity of the vibrations can be adjusted at any time. It is important to familiarize yourself with the toy before using it.

The market of erotic toys is constantly developing, and today you can find gadgets for all preferences, so we also mention in passing wands, vibrating eggs, massage toys, devices that stroke or rotate around the penis, even a WaterSlide that you can attach it to the bathtub to direct the water jet to the private parts, not to mention the BDSM toys that include paddles, ties, chains, collars, nipple clamps, bondage kits or other sex toy sets.

Homemade sex toys

Which proves to us once again, the inventiveness and creativity of people when it comes to exploring pleasure . Because, after all, they say the best things are free. And it can be the same when it comes to sex toys! It doesn't have to be fancy, or cost a lot of money, especially if you're just starting out and want to use what you have at home before investing. Some ideas, if you haven't already thought of it, can be to use clothes hooks or a metal spatula that you have in the kitchen.

What are the most famous brands of sex toys

Because sex toys vary from materials, shapes and sizes to prices, choosing can be a challenge. Each toy caters to specific desires, and experiences will never be the same. But if you are looking for the most famous brands that are innovating the market, there are a few that are good to know about:

Maude

• Ergonomic devices, made of soft-touch and body-safe silicone, designed to be used alone or with a partner.

Lelo

• Inclusive vision, elegant designs, hi-tech intimacy for all tastes and toys specially created for more intensity during sex.

Checkers

• Sexual wellness focused on design, functionality and sex education, with affordable products, discreet deliveries and 60-day returns.